Now incomplete does not mean inadequate or less than what I am. All it means is that when I’m with this person I know exactly what (kind of person) I need to be complete, which highlights the fact there is something to complete (no matter how much I’d like to believe that I, me & myself is more than sufficient)
Why can this person not complete me, you ask? This person is a friend and will always be that. He is everything that I want in a guy. He is the right guy for me in all terms except that he is unavailable.
Such is life.
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the questions must beckon... who?
*pssst whisper into ear.. tell tell
ah the heart desires the one who is unattainable and unavailable...hang in there girl.
Anahat - don't be so nosy. It isn't anybody u know.
Seren - The heart desires he who is right....right for me.
on a more cynincal note: unattainability & unavailablity are all a question of time.
yeaaah! i like that attitude:
"unattainability & unavailability are all a question of time"
thats a *money* quote right there.
How's that cynical though? - sounsd fairly optimistic and positive to me - no?
Aman - cynical was the wrong word..
It is optimistic def, but there is an issue of morality & ethics.
Irrespective of any amount of time, going after this guy would be considered inappropriate due to the circumstances that make him unavailable.
And I really don't think I want to wait around till his circumstances change & I def don't want to be a catalyst that expedites a change in the circumstances...
So what I'm left with is .... knowing what I want and what I need AND not having to do anymore trial & error relationship experimenting to find the "right" guy.
The right guy has to match up and/or exceed.
Good luck! :)
i didn't say anything about inappropriate. After a while, ettiquette fades darling.
I know u didn't say anything about inappropriate... I did.
It has nothing to do with ettiquette. Like the lyrics in some song.. "if it isn't love, there is no point in breaking a happy home" ..
It isn't love ..
And even though I like older men.. anything more than a 5 year difference will cause issues.
i dont see the problem (unless hes married in which case i'll just have to spend more time sorting out your concience!)...make him available! (excuse the naivity of assuming that there are no complications)
and in case he is not available (REALLY really)then i dont believe theres only 1 perfect guy out there, you just havent found him
yet... till then sighhhhhhhh
Yes - u r naive..
Yes - there are complications.. but when do I do anything that isn't complicated.
Yes - u need to spend more time sorting my conscience... actually you just need to spend more time calling me..
No - I never said he is the "perfect" guy.. I said he is the "right" guy.. huge difference.. But that is another post altogether.
Yes - I love you too :)
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